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by Laura McCorry

What’s weighing you down? That idea pushed to the back of your mind that hasn’t left. Maybe it’s been days or months. Maybe you’ve been thinking about this thing you’d like to change for years.

Sometimes we let ourselves be defined by conditions and labels that have grown up over the years like weeds. They come from family, co-workers or friends – sometimes they have even been planted by our own hand in the night. The weeds grow up around the bloom of your true self and cut off the light.

You are the gardener of your soul. Approach your inner landscape fearlessly and take stock of everything growing there.

Keep the healthy growth: the relationships still in bloom that bring you joy, those habits and ideas that feed your passions with their abundant produce.

Prune back anything that doesn’t fit your true self, the person you’d like to be. Clear away doubt, anger, resentment and guilt. Let go of old sorrows that have ripened and fallen to the ground. Dig down into the earth of your being and rake away the last remnants of any bad seed.

These things weigh on your heart because they are not rightfully a part of you. A gardener’s work is never done. Each day you must go out and pull up small intrusions. Each day you must show up and begin again.

Laura McCorry
Contributing Writer

Yoga and Laura had an on-again-off-again relationship from 2004 until 2009 when they decided to move in together and there’s been no looking back since. Passionate about both yoga and writing, Laura loves to introduce others to the joys and benefits of yoga and healthy living.

Contact: laura@yogaonesandiego.com

What I love most about the start of a new year is that new year smell in the air. It’s fresh, light and full of promise. No matter where you were in life, it’s a chapter break that stops the narrative, forces you to turn the page and take a breath before diving back in. If you breathe in deep enough, you’ll sense the empty pages ahead and start to write in dreams and expectations.

That’s where it gets complicated. From the start, most New Year’s resolutions are like desert flowers – they only bloom once a year for a very short period of time. The overwhelming majority of them have faded and disappeared by the time February or March roll around. Very few people were counting down the seconds on December 31st, ready to congratulate themselves for keeping their resolution the whole year through. That said, no effort is ever wasted in the struggle to realize the best possible version of yourself.

The secret to staying committed and present with goals/life/yoga is to begin again. How many times have you been in yoga class and found your mind wandering? The best way to bring your attention back to the present moment is always to take a breath and pretend you just arrived on your mat. Stop thinking about how wobbly you were in tree pose ten seconds ago and lunge forward confidently into warrior two, focused solely on the present moment. Even if you’ve already let a day or two go by without acting on your resolutions, it’s never too late to start again.

Take a deep breath. Let it out. Pretend you just arrived here, in this place, right now. Where are you going and where do you want to go? If those two answers are different, maybe that’s your resolution this year. Let go of your past mistakes and failures. Set a specific goal to accomplish within a reasonable amount of time. Every day you fail, take a breath and begin again. Day by day, as you choose to start over in the direction of your dreams, you add petals layer by layer to the unopened bud. That way, when the rains of opportunity come, your desert flower is ready to bloom.

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